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Tuesday
Aug222006

Brokeback Mountain

Yesterday I finally watched the film Brokeback Mountain. I wasn’t sure what to expect after all the hype, gossip, critical reviews, and Oscar night drama. Would it live up to its reputation? Over and over again I’d read this was not a “gay cowboy movie” but a  love story. And while I didn’t know the plot in advance, I fully expected to shed a few tears as it progressed.

As I watched the movie on a gray day with rain pouring off the roof, I was surprisingly unmoved. The relationship with Jack and Ennis didn’t seem to unfold as much as it exploded. Even knowing what was coming, I didn’t see it coming. Was that intentional on the actors’ and director’s part? Was it supposed to convey how these forbidden feelings were suppressed and denied by the characters until they couldn’t be contained?

Probably. And while the understated performances were magnified by the contrast of the grand sweep of the Western scenery, I had a hard time capturing the essence of the relationship between Jack and Ennis. Maybe that's because they didn't understand their relationship either. Why did they love each other? What was the basis of their attraction? What bound them to one another?

The scenes where they scuffled, in fun or in anger, were brilliant, illustrating their inner struggles and the way they were masculine in every sense of the word. Heath Ledger did an incredible job of conveying a man in a man’s world grappling with the social expectations that imprison him. His facial expressions, his body language, his restraint say so much more than his dialogue. Jake Gyllenhaal does a great job of conveying Jack’s’s unease with his place in society and yet his refusal to give up his dreams of happiness. Neither actor nor director falls into cliches depicting gay men.

And yet despite these fine-tuned performances, I didn’t cry as these men two-stepped through unfulfilling marriages and strained family relationships. I didn’t even cry when Ennis called Jack’s wife to get the details of his death or during the heart rending scene with Jack’s parents.  His father’s wary, hardened face makes his disappointment and latent disgust with Jack palpable, and yet there are hints of wistfulness as he recalls Jack’s talk of plans to help run the ranch with a buddy. His mother’s resignation and ambivalent acceptance of who her son was is there in her compassion for Ennis. And they all sit in a spartan house on a windswept plain and privately consider how all traces of  happiness have been scoured from their lives.

Larry McMurtry and Diana Ossana wrote the screenplay for Brokeback. McMurtry is one of my favorite writers—his writing is spare, subtle, and restrained, yet his novels are loaded with emotion. His books not only earn coveted space on my shelves, but his stories nest in my subconscious.

I’m not surprised then that while I didn’t cry during Brokeback, I can’t stop thinking about Ennis and Jack and the world they inhabited. Like their attraction to each other, the story just won’t leave me be, haunting me long after the screen faded to black and the TV clicked off.  

August 22, 2006

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I went to see Brokeback back in February when I was visiting a girlfriend out of town. We both reacted the same exact way ... no tears, but we kept thinking about it for days and would occasionally talk about it ... like you said, it haunted us. The characters seemed very real to us. We saw Walk the Line the night before we watched Brokeback and while you thought that movie was really good and well done (and I was never a big Cash fan), it paled big time in comparison to Brokeback. Brokeback was very powerful to us. I was disappointed it didn't get more awards. I thought it deserved a lot more.
August 22, 2006 | Unregistered CommenterShirley
I haven't seen the movie yet. I'm sure it's really good, but SO MUCH FUSS was made about it that I thought I'd wait and see it at home.
August 22, 2006 | Unregistered Commenterwordgirl
I haven't seen this movie either -- I want to, but I wanted to wait until all the hype died down. Reading your review was cool -- I love reading movie reviews before I watch a movie. I'll let you know what I think of it when I do end up watching it. :)
August 22, 2006 | Unregistered Commentermamatulip
Very interesting review. One of my pet peeves with love stories is when it isn't made clear to the audience exactly why the characters fall in love with each other. I definitely plan to see this film, but, I, too, think I'll give it a little more time.
August 22, 2006 | Unregistered CommenterArabella
I never saw this film, either. Its storyline just didn't appeal to me. Not because of the gay love story, but because of the cowboy angle, I guess. I thought maybe I'd rent it one day to see what all the big deal was about, but I knew its sex scenes probably couldn't be as graphic as those in "Wilde" with Jude Law and Stephen Frye. I loved that movie, which was about Oscar Wilde's relationship with the son of the Marquis of Queensberry, and his trial and imprisonment afterwards. Your review echoes that of a few other people's, friends whose tastes are similar to mine. I'll continue to take a pass.
August 22, 2006 | Unregistered CommenterNance
I saw it and thought it was a good movie, but I was disappointed when I didn't get pulled into the "doomed love story" theme that everyone made such a big deal about. Then I got to thinking that it's just me, that I've lost my "romantic" streak that used to make me get into those kinds of stories before I, let's see...got married, had kids, worked 9-5 for the last 16 years, etc. Hmmm, maybe that was what torched that aspect of my personality. Or maybe I just didn't get involved in the love story. I don't think it was the gay thing, either. I just had a hard time feeling sorry for them and how their lives played out. I sometimes think about how I could still be living in Denmark as an expat, maybe writing, maybe still being a kept man. But reality intruded and I wouldn't want to be anywhere else.

Yeah, I guess I did lose my romantic streak. Shit.
August 22, 2006 | Unregistered Commentermamalujo1
Mamalujo1,

I hear ya on that. It's all I could do to keep from saying, "Of course they didn't get what they wanted. Who does?"

It's sad. I used to be a Nice Grrrl and now I'm Mighty Cynical. When I go to gushy weddings, I try not to smirk--or I cry for all the wrong reasons.
August 22, 2006 | Unregistered CommenterV-Grrrl
Such a thoughtful and well written review. I haven't seen the movie, but I love McMurty's writing.
August 22, 2006 | Unregistered CommenterTB
I also thought the performances were really powerful. I liked how a lot was left unsaid in the story, and I think that is why you think about it so much after you see it. I spent a lot of time thinking and filling in, and I think that is a good trick to creating a bond between the characters and the reader/viewer.
I did cry at the end, but only a little. I cried for how lonely Ennis was in his life. He could have made things so different, not just with Jack, but with his kids, and that felt so sad to me.

:)
August 22, 2006 | Unregistered Commenteramber
I believe that I reviewed a couple of films that were nominated as best picture for the Academy Awards (<i>Crash</i> and <i>Walk the Line</i> - for some reason, I thought that I had reviewed <i>Capote</i> too, but I did not.) I saw <i>Brokeback Mountain</i>, of course, but could not have reviewed it. The theme was way too close for comfort for me.

The relationship has tons to do with lust, in my book. With a type of lust that Jack is much more savvy about than Ennis. And, let's face it. What did Jack find in Ennis, a guy who can barely put two words together? I am not saying that there is no love that builds between them, but the initial feeling is very primal.

One scene that absolutely hit home for me was the scene when Ennis gets frantically ready to go on his weekend tryst with Jack. He frantically gathers his gear, totally oblivious to his surroundings, of those around him - his wife and kids - he has simply obliterated them from his life at that very moment. There is only one thing on his mind: getting away with Jack, for a lustful weekend of mad sex. Believe me, I have seen this before. It's not pretty.

I did like the film, not nearly as much as <i>Walk the Line</i> and <i>Capote</i> and, I have to say, I concur with your analysis of it. And, as a friend of my daughter's put it: "The sheep were very good in that movie."
August 22, 2006 | Unregistered CommenterElisabeth
Wow. I kinda wanted to see this before...now I totally do. Gotta add it to my list of movies to watch after Hailey goes to sleep.
August 23, 2006 | Unregistered CommenterJenny
I thought it was a beautiful movie and was moved to tears over Ennis' loss, and the life neither of them got to live. I found the reunion scene where Ennis ran down the stairs of his apartment when he saw Jack pull up incredibly powerful. The embrace was memorable. The movie stayed with me for days afterwards. I felt such sorrow for their unfulfilled love and for the misfortune of falling in love with someone of the same sex at that time in history and in that part of the country.
August 23, 2006 | Unregistered CommenterRD
V, that was exactly the way I felt, except I quit watching after the boys' first reunion. When Ennis' wife saw them kissing under the stairs I immediately turned it off because all I could feel was sadness for her. It occurred to me that I was going to feel this same sadness for the entire movie, and to me the movie became more about cheating and less about forbidden love. And I didn't want to watch a movie about a woman with two young children stuck in a marriage with an adulterer.

Thank you for filling in the blanks a little. Will you do more movie reviews? I liked this one a lot.
August 23, 2006 | Unregistered CommenterMignon
I regret mailing it back to Netflix right away. I find I want to watch it again, looking for clues, gauging my reaction a second time to key scenes.
August 24, 2006 | Unregistered CommenterV-Grrrl
I don' know if I want to see the film.I've worked and associated with gays and lesbians, but I don't think that I want to see a couple form a relationship. I find that within myself that I do have prejudices that I don't always realize are there, until confronted.
August 26, 2006 | Unregistered Commenterdan
Dan,

Considering most of us were raised in a world where gays were reviled and hidden, it's not surprising that acceptance and understanding comes to us in increments. Recognizing where we are in that process helps us move forward.
August 27, 2006 | Unregistered CommenterV-Grrrl

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